
I haven't read any manga for a while, so after Amazon recommended a new-ish series called My Girlfriend's Not Here Today and showed off some excitingly racy cover art, I decided to jump into my second yuri manga series about cheating.
I like yuri stories, and I don't mind admitting that at least part of the reason is due to, shall we say, baser instincts. But I also just like the general tone and vibe that stories which focus entirely on girls have. As anyone who has explored various subdivisions of Japanese popular media will know, there are certain conventions in play when it comes to particular categories of story. They're not completely universal, of course — that would probably be boring after a while — but it's not unusual to find yuri/girls' love stories about interpersonal drama and cheating, while yaoi/boys' love, in my limited experience, often tends to delve into darker themes like abuse, emotional manipulation and even violence.
I must confess, at this point, that yaoi is a bit of a black spot in my overall knowledge, hence the generalisation above, but I'm not against the idea of exploring it; there are a lot of very well-regarded yaoi visual novels that I'm very curious to investigate at some point, for example.
Yuri, meanwhile, I have a bit more experience with. In the video game/visual novel space, I've particularly enjoyed the Nurse Love series, which consists of two tonally very different girls' love games, ostensibly about the careers of young and trainee nurses, but which go to some… interesting places in certain of their routes. I can also highly recommend the incredible SeaBed, which is just a beautiful masterpiece of writing generally that just happens to be yuri at its core.
In the manga space, meanwhile, I read through all of the delightfully sweet Our Teachers are Dating! and Netsuzou Trap (NTR for short, because why hide it?) a while back and enjoyed all of those (and doubtless a few others I've forgotten) a lot.
Anyway, My Girlfriend's Not Here Today has an intriguing premise. We have a pre-established girl-girl relationship between main protagonist Yuni and her volleyball enthusiast partner, Nanase. Yuni is frustrated with Nanase because Nanase seems to care more about volleyball than about her — and, on top of that, she refuses to show any signs of affection in public or acknowledge their relationship to anyone. Yuni, being a teenage girl in the 2020s, naturally takes to her "vent" account online to complain about her situation, and ends up getting noticed by the mysterious, quiet honour student Fuuko — who, it turns out, is quite the scheming, manipulative little succubus, and someone who has been watching Yuni's vent account for quite some time.

Frustrated with Nanase, Yuni hesitantly confides in Fuuko, who very quickly becomes attached to Yuni. Things come to a head in the first volume when the pair duck into a private room at an Internet café to discuss things and end up sharing a passionate kiss after Yuni believes Nanase had forgotten their six-month anniversary. Naturally, she immediately regrets this — particularly when Nanase phones her, better late than never — but also finds that she can't stop thinking about Fuuko. While she believes she loves Nanase, her growing frustration with the seemingly growing distance between her makes the contrast with the passionate, impulsive Fuuko all the more apparent — and it's clear Yuni finds that attractive, despite herself.
What I've found interesting about My Girlfriend's Not Here Today so far after reading two volumes is how definitively "2020s" it feels. Some manga feels like it deliberately places its setting in an idealised alternate reality where people still talk to one another face-to-face and smartphones were never invented — wouldn't that be fun? — but it's a core part of My Girlfriend's Not Here Today's identity to include thoroughly modern concepts such as a "vent account" and related matters, such as young people's tendency to overshare things online without necessarily considering the long-term consequences.
There's a great tense of tension between Yuni and Fuuko, who obviously have a lot of chemistry with one another. Fuuko in particular is presented as striking an excellent balance between terrifying yandere and someone who has quite legitimate reasons for feeling and acting the way she does, and Yuni's frustration at her inability to communicate effectively with her supposed partner is very much a story for the ages.

I particularly love the way the art is presented, especially in the early parts of the first volume. Fuuko is initially drawn in an almost ethereal, ghost-like style, which can perhaps be interpreted as Yuni gradually coming to "notice" her more, with her attention having been firmly devoted to Nanase up until this point. She's presented as a delicate beauty, yet her behaviour subverts the expectations one might initially have based on her appearance, and, although she is, at times, an overbearing, even aggressive instigator of the illicit relationship between her and Yuni, she also clearly has flaws and weaknesses that I suspect will continue to be exposed and explored as the story proceeds.
I'm not sure why I'm drawn to stories like this. Having been on the receiving end of cheating multiple times in my life, one would think that I would not care to seek out such things in my entertainment. But the fact is, situations that often get boiled down to "cheating" are often complex, volatile affairs — and that makes for thoroughly interesting, compelling stories about interpersonal relationships. For some reason that is something that many yuri authors in particular find themselves drawn to, and, honestly, I'm here for it.

I've enjoyed the first two volumes of My Girlfriend's Not Here Today a great deal so far. I look forward to reading the rest.
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As I've mentioned a couple of times recently, I've been reading the Monster Musume manga as well as keeping up with the anime adaptation, and I've been enjoying both a great deal.


