1853: Waifutine’s Day

The whole “waifu” thing is something I find quite interesting.

For the uninitiated, a proud declaration that someone is your “waifu” (or, optionally, and possibly spelled differently, “hasubando”) is something oddly peculiar to fans of Japanese popular entertainment. It goes far beyond simple attraction to the physical depiction of a character — particularly since it’s very rare for anime- and manga-styled media to have unattractive characters, particularly female ones — and instead is to do with how the character is depicted: usually a combination of artwork, animation, voice acting and writing.

I say it’s peculiar to fans of Japanese popular entertainment because you simply don’t see it happening with Western entertainment. People might be sexually attracted to someone like, say, Doctor Who’s Amy Pond; people might be attracted to the intelligence of someone like Deep Space Nine’s Jadzia Dax; people might simply want to hang out with someone cool like Robin from How I Met Your Mother (yes, these are all examples from my own personal tastes; please feel free to replace them with your own choices, including gentlemen, if you so desire) — but it’s pretty rare for someone to proudly and simply declare that one of these characters is their “waifu” (or just plain “wife”) and develop a borderline obsession with them. Among other things, it’s seen as creepy to have an obsession with a “3D” person, whereas when it comes to “2D” characters, pretty much anything goes as far as most people are concerned, since they’re not “real people” in the first place.

Perhaps it’s to do with the contrast between animation and live action: in Japanese popular media, we get animation covering all sorts of subject matter and for all ages, while in the West, with a few exceptions like Archer, The Venture Bros., South Park and a few others, animation is still seen very much as children’s entertainment, and live-action is seen as more appropriate for adults. The thing with animation is it depicts a heavily idealised perception of reality where pretty much everyone is physically beautiful and completely visually distinct from one another, and a lot of characters fall into easily definable, easily categorisable tropes that people can latch on to and identify as being appealing to them.

In this way, the declaration of a “waifu” could be argued to be a distillation of a person’s individual tastes. It’s rare (and undesirable) to pigeon-hole real people into neat tropes like tsundere, kuudere, ojou-sama and the like, since real people are complex; meanwhile, it’s expected in anime and Japanese games. These characters are deliberately exaggerated interpretations of particular personality traits; in reality, everyone might have a bit of all of these tropes in them, whereas when we’re talking about animated entertainment, one of these tropes tends to be the defining characteristic of a particular character. In other words, by declaring a particular character to be one’s “waifu” you are effectively nailing your colours to a particular personality trait’s standard and declaring that this, above all others, is something you find appealing for whatever reason.

And it doesn’t even have to match how you feel in the “real world”. I’m crazy about tsundere characters in games and anime, for example, but if I was confronted with someone who was that bitchy and mean to me in reality, I’d be quite uncomfortable. (Although if you listened to Andie and I insult one another on a daily basis — without meaning any of it, I might add — you might question my assertion here.) Likewise, something like the yandere trope can be extremely compelling — your favourite, even — in fiction, but something you would absolutely want to stay the hell away from in reality. (And with good reason; if you’re not sure what a yandere is, I’d urge you to go and play School Days through a few times; if you hit the “Bloody End”, then you’ll soon figure it out.)

On a vaguely related note, having now completed three out of the four endings of Akiba’s Trip on the Vita, I’m fairly confident that Rin will be my waifu from that particular work of interactive entertainment. And I will fight anyone who doesn’t agree she is best girl! 🙂