1886: The Order

(Couldn’t resist, sorry. This post has nothing to do with The Order 1886.)

Spent the evening round at my friend Tim’s house this evening. We played some multiplayer games and just hung out a bit. It was pleasant.

On the multiplayer front, we gave ZombiU a go properly now that I have a Classic Controller Pro or whatever the Wii U Xbox controller knockoff is called. It’s much more playable than the cumbersome, weird Nunchuk and Wiimote setup we tried it with last time, and made for a far more enjoyable game.

ZombiU’s multiplayer mode is a lot of fun. There are two distinct ways to play: a Capture the Flag-style mode and a variant on a “Horde” mode. Neither of these are conventionally implemented thanks to the focus on asymmetric play: one player has the Wii U GamePad, while the other has some form of more traditional control scheme (preferably a Classic Controller Pro) and plays on the TV. The GamePad player is essentially playing a top-down real-time strategy game, while the player on the TV is playing a conventional first-person shooter.

It’s a simple idea, but very effective. The GamePad player is able to summon zombies of various types into the player’s game by tapping the screen, though there are certain limitations: firstly, different types of zombies cost a certain amount of resources, which increase gradually over time; secondly, you can only have up to eight zombies summoned at once; thirdly, you’re not able to just plop zombies down right next to the player: red zones on the map (including a mobile one in the player’s immediate vicinity) show where you’re not able to summon one of your minions. Each time you place a zombie, you creep closer to a level up, which allows you to unlock new zombies and abilities; in other words, the longer the match goes on, the more difficult it gets for the “Survivor” player.

It’s definitely worth a try. Not sure how much “staying power” it has, but we played it for a good while this evening and it was consistently fun.

Having the opportunity to spend some time with Tim this evening got me thinking, though. It’s been a while since we were able to hang out together, and with two of our regular board gaming group now considerably busier than they once were — one with a new house, another with a new baby — it’s getting more and more difficult to find opportunities to spend time together and do fun things. This is all part of “growing up”, of course, but, to sound like a petulant child for a moment, I don’t like it all that much.

Over the last few months, I’ve found myself feeling quite a bit more isolated for various reasons. I haven’t seen quite a few of my “real life” friends for quite some time, partly because they’re busy with their own real lives — there are several new babies in my circle of friends, for example — and also partly because my own social anxiety makes me feel like I’m being a bother when I consider asking people if they have time to hang out.

There are lots of things I’d like to do with people, but I’m not entirely sure if the people I know now would be interested in doing them. I’d like to play board games with a wider circle of people, for example; I’m envious of my friends elsewhere who have groups who can meet much more regularly than mine. I’d like to play some role-playing games — both silly ones like Maid: The Role-Playing Game and more traditional ones like Dungeons & Dragons — but I’m not entirely convinced I know anyone who’d be up for it. And I’d like to shamelessly copy my friends Mark and Lynette in having a regular “anime and cocktails” evening (perhaps with less emphasis on the latter, as I don’t drink much these days) during which we watch several different shows with markedly different themes. I am at least thankful that I can share Final Fantasy XIV with Andie.

Chances are I do know at least a couple of people who would be interested in some or all of the above, but it’s sometimes difficult to know how to bring these things up — or, in some cases, how to ask to join other well-established friendship or activity groups who would be into this sort of thing. It’s even more daunting to contemplate the prospect of finding completely new friends, so I have to wonder if I’ll continue to be stuck in this faintly dissatisfied situation, never quite able to truly share some of the things I enjoy with other people?